Mom was full of truisms. Patience is a virtue. All things come to he who waits. All men want (boys) want only one thing.
Never, ever, under any circumstances, even if you are bleeding by the side of the road, get into a car with a boy you don't know. Even one you do know if he's not a cousin.
Patience was not my virtue. Opposites were. Impatience. Standing by the side of the road with my thumb out tempting fate, but that was later. In high school, I seldom got into cars with boys because what self-respecting boy would want a scaggy, thick glasses wearing, dressed like a frump, pimply girl in his car?
Of course there were the disreputable ones, the ones to whom self-respect was a concept they had no concept of.
That's probably why I found myself in the back seat of Cheryl MacIntosh's Volkswagon at Salisbury beach making out with a very drunk Bobby Whittaker.
Bobby was cute, long blonde hair falling into his eyes, many of popular girls even had been known to get into back seats with him. Kissing was the most I would allow on this sultry summer afternoon just blocks off the boardwalk, with Cheryl leaning on the front bumper, such as it was, scarfing down fried clams and french fries out of greasy take away boxes.
We had been smoking. Cigarettes, not reefer. There were some places even I, the shoplifter, the cheating girlfriend, the loose one in the back seat of the car, would not go. Kissing was as far as I would go with Bobby, who was so drunk, he didn't even push for anything more.
After he fell out onto the ground and stumbled off, Cheryl said, with her been-there-done-that air of superiority, "That's the last you'll see of him, you know."
I didn't care. I had the mark of Bobby Whittaker stamped on my face permanently.
I had had a weakness for boys names Bobby before, and there would be many more to come.
Another time, Cheryl and I found ourselves at a party with some more Bobbies, only their names were probably something else They were from out of town, and we all decided to go for a ride in their car, some kind of 1950's rattletrap, big as tank, only made out of tin. not armor plate. We got to our destination, a club a few towns over, and then when it was time to leave, the car sputtered a few blocks down the highway and died completely.
One of the boys found a pay phone and called his mom, who wasn't especially thrilled at being roused at midnight, to come and get us. I had no choice. I had to call my mom, who I knew would be waiting in her chair by the phone, in the dark, no TV to keep her company, no comforting bottle of scotch. Maybe cold black coffee, waiting for the phone call from the hospital or police she knew she'd inevitably get one night.
I was supposed to be out with Cheryl at a girl's pool party; in fact, we had started out the evening at the girl's house, but those kinds of parties always turned coed, even if the parents assured my mom no boys were invited, just girls having a good time, gossiping and swimming and giggling in their new bikinis in the lawn chairs. The parents would be home, don't worry.
She worried. Rightly so in that boys were indeed present, once the parents left the chilling night air for their TV's, Milton Berle, or Ed Sullivan, or Bonanza, depending on the night of the week, and the girls and the paired up.
No dummies, we weren't interested in freezing by the pool either, so we grabbed our sweaters and loafers and paired off with the boys.
Our boys were from Leominster and they knew a cool place there for folk music. Believe me, I was still the most innocent of boy-crazy girls. And the boys were, in fact, perfect gentlemen. Square, college bound, this was as crazy as they got. Perfect for me, at my stage of arrested adolescence; Cheryl found them boring. But the poolside chatter even more so. So we went to the club, heard some wannabe Bob Dylan imitator, and at a decent hour, well before curfew, were headed home.
The sputtering car put an end to thoughts of slipping in under Mom's radar. I had no choice but to call her, since the boys parents weren't coming for several minutes; it was almost midnight; the car had to be towed and the parents would have to then drive these strange girls homes. They were not happy.
My mom was apoplectic, once she realized I was not raped in a ditch. She lost no time telling me, I was saved by a twist of fate this time, but if I ever did this again, not only would my limp body, misused and maybe even with the life crushed out of it, be the outcome, but a sure heart attack would fell my mother in her prime, leaving me motherless, and worse, in charge of raising my baby sister all on my own.
Naturally, car trips with boys were off my social calendar for a long long time.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
One more digression. Shame in the pharmacy
It's interesting the way memories work. They say smell is the most evocative and one of the last senses to go. Smells remembered bring up sights remembered, sounds.
When I was six, maybe five, my father and I walked into the local pharmacy to get some mundane item. I held Dad's hand. As we entered the store, the pharmacist looked up and said "Hi there," in an enthusiastic tone of voice. "Hi," answered my Dad, just as enthusiastically.
"I wasn't talking to you," said the pharmacist, a man we had known for years, "I was talking to him," pointing to a man who had come in behind us.
Was there a smell, not that I can recall, but the feeling of deep humiliation, a word I did not even know, came over me at the time, and for years, I cringed ever time that scene played itself out in my mind. Shame, red corpuscles rising to the face, a sense of being less than, unworthy. My instinct was to turn tail and run. Like my puppy Babboo cowering under a chair when pursued by the larger dog Hanson in his puppy class.
Dad, laid low by the words of a pharmacist, not particularly hostile words, but dismissive words, my Dad dismissed and not even important enough to warrant a greeting by a tradesman. More than empathy, a personally felt rebuke to myself, even though I was not addressed.
What happened next I don't recall, but I'm guessing Dad made his purchase and left. Was he suffering the humiliation of his tiny daughter? Was there a history between this man and my dad, that made him not even say, "Oh Hi Bill, I was talking to Joe, there, but good to see you." Would that have made all the difference? Or would the shock of the "mistake" made by my Dad linger anyway, even if they pharmacist recovered his own equilibrium.
Funny, I never felt antipathy toward the pharmacist, just a sense of shame for my dad, myself.
The sense of deeply felt emotions, even ones unnamed and never felt before, are stronger than the strongest smell.
When I was six, maybe five, my father and I walked into the local pharmacy to get some mundane item. I held Dad's hand. As we entered the store, the pharmacist looked up and said "Hi there," in an enthusiastic tone of voice. "Hi," answered my Dad, just as enthusiastically.
"I wasn't talking to you," said the pharmacist, a man we had known for years, "I was talking to him," pointing to a man who had come in behind us.
Was there a smell, not that I can recall, but the feeling of deep humiliation, a word I did not even know, came over me at the time, and for years, I cringed ever time that scene played itself out in my mind. Shame, red corpuscles rising to the face, a sense of being less than, unworthy. My instinct was to turn tail and run. Like my puppy Babboo cowering under a chair when pursued by the larger dog Hanson in his puppy class.
Dad, laid low by the words of a pharmacist, not particularly hostile words, but dismissive words, my Dad dismissed and not even important enough to warrant a greeting by a tradesman. More than empathy, a personally felt rebuke to myself, even though I was not addressed.
What happened next I don't recall, but I'm guessing Dad made his purchase and left. Was he suffering the humiliation of his tiny daughter? Was there a history between this man and my dad, that made him not even say, "Oh Hi Bill, I was talking to Joe, there, but good to see you." Would that have made all the difference? Or would the shock of the "mistake" made by my Dad linger anyway, even if they pharmacist recovered his own equilibrium.
Funny, I never felt antipathy toward the pharmacist, just a sense of shame for my dad, myself.
The sense of deeply felt emotions, even ones unnamed and never felt before, are stronger than the strongest smell.
Monday, March 23, 2009
A digression beginning in the style of Gertrude Stein
A girl had a little brother. A little girl had a little brother. A littler little brother. When she was two she had a little brother and he had a tail. "Look Mom," she says, "Brother has a tail," and her mother laughed and explained it to her, what did the mother explain exactly? That little boy babies have tails? Probably because the mother does not say words like penis, and she certainly never did and never would say any other words for the right words. If she didn't say the right words, she would certainly not say the other words.
So, a little girl had a little brother and then she didn't, and this is the the story of that.
The little girl and her brother were best friends. You never have a friend like that again. Not ever, not even if the brother grows up, he is not a friend like that. I swear it. When you are small, you can do amazing things with your brother; you can climb into the front window of the butcher shop next door and eat baloney sliced by Mr. Shoudy's own hand, ad Mrs. Shoudy won't even get mad at you. You can pet the Shoudy's cat. That's before the health department shuts down the Shoudy's butcher shop for cats and so forth.
You can ride the arm of the fat green sofa and it is a horse, and you can say things in front of your mother's friends that otherwise, even a moment after they ar eout of your mouth, your mother scowls and chases you out of the room, so you know, you know, without anyone saying anything, that you have said something you can never say again, and your borther and you look at each other in waning innocence.
"Mom, boys have weiners (not tails, you know that now) and girls have buns (where did you hear about that?) and boys can put their weiners in the girls' buns" and you know that what makes so much 5 year old sense is wrong and you run out of the room and forget about it, but feel shame for the first time, shame, a word you do not know, you feel it.
Then you are 5 and a half or maybe 6 by now, it is very hot and you walk out the front door all by yourself, your brother is sick, he is very sick and cannot walk out the front door at all, but you can and it is the first act of betrayal of your life. Your mother gets very angry at you after you have a long walk, past the cemetery, past the purple Jewel truck in the last driveway before there aren't any more driveways and you have no landmark to turn around at, so you just do, you just turn and walk back the way you came, your mother angry and dark in the driveway, "Now I have to call the police back and tell them the naughty girl is home."
There were drives in the big car, there were drives past pass with care and do not pass and that's how the girl lerned to read, and her brother couldn't read, but she read the sings to him, pass with care, do not pass. They passed the time to the hospital, where the brother got new blood.
New blood for old, for young blood, bad blood, long drives, the father driving, the mother riding, the brother, the best friend, sitting beside you, laughing, tripping, going for new blood.
Sometimes the girl has to stay with the grandmother, the great-grandmother, who is very old and not nice, not at all, not one bit, though the girl can't say why. Then the mother and father and brother go alone in the car passing with care and not passing for more than a day and a night.
And so one night the mother comes for the girl and the brother does not. There is no brother. There is a mother and a father and no brother. The girl has a toy with suction cups on its feet and she is walking it up the window. Up and up, and does not look at the mother. The mother has left the brother and the mother is no longer the mother. She is the other. Only the other. The mother would never leave the brother. She is not the mother, this other. The girl has only her suction cup toy and the empty window; only climbing up and up. The mother, the other, the not-mother stands alone.
So, a little girl had a little brother and then she didn't, and this is the the story of that.
The little girl and her brother were best friends. You never have a friend like that again. Not ever, not even if the brother grows up, he is not a friend like that. I swear it. When you are small, you can do amazing things with your brother; you can climb into the front window of the butcher shop next door and eat baloney sliced by Mr. Shoudy's own hand, ad Mrs. Shoudy won't even get mad at you. You can pet the Shoudy's cat. That's before the health department shuts down the Shoudy's butcher shop for cats and so forth.
You can ride the arm of the fat green sofa and it is a horse, and you can say things in front of your mother's friends that otherwise, even a moment after they ar eout of your mouth, your mother scowls and chases you out of the room, so you know, you know, without anyone saying anything, that you have said something you can never say again, and your borther and you look at each other in waning innocence.
"Mom, boys have weiners (not tails, you know that now) and girls have buns (where did you hear about that?) and boys can put their weiners in the girls' buns" and you know that what makes so much 5 year old sense is wrong and you run out of the room and forget about it, but feel shame for the first time, shame, a word you do not know, you feel it.
Then you are 5 and a half or maybe 6 by now, it is very hot and you walk out the front door all by yourself, your brother is sick, he is very sick and cannot walk out the front door at all, but you can and it is the first act of betrayal of your life. Your mother gets very angry at you after you have a long walk, past the cemetery, past the purple Jewel truck in the last driveway before there aren't any more driveways and you have no landmark to turn around at, so you just do, you just turn and walk back the way you came, your mother angry and dark in the driveway, "Now I have to call the police back and tell them the naughty girl is home."
There were drives in the big car, there were drives past pass with care and do not pass and that's how the girl lerned to read, and her brother couldn't read, but she read the sings to him, pass with care, do not pass. They passed the time to the hospital, where the brother got new blood.
New blood for old, for young blood, bad blood, long drives, the father driving, the mother riding, the brother, the best friend, sitting beside you, laughing, tripping, going for new blood.
Sometimes the girl has to stay with the grandmother, the great-grandmother, who is very old and not nice, not at all, not one bit, though the girl can't say why. Then the mother and father and brother go alone in the car passing with care and not passing for more than a day and a night.
And so one night the mother comes for the girl and the brother does not. There is no brother. There is a mother and a father and no brother. The girl has a toy with suction cups on its feet and she is walking it up the window. Up and up, and does not look at the mother. The mother has left the brother and the mother is no longer the mother. She is the other. Only the other. The mother would never leave the brother. She is not the mother, this other. The girl has only her suction cup toy and the empty window; only climbing up and up. The mother, the other, the not-mother stands alone.
Monday, March 16, 2009
Garret Players and the Church
It is 1966 and my best friend is a gay guy named Sammy. (no we don't say gay; we don't say or even think anything.) Sammy and I go to the Garret players in a garret in a nearby town. They rehearse sultry Tennessee Williams plays in the sweltering New England heat. We drag chairs and rugs across the dusty floor. We watch. Afterwards we always stop at Howdy Beefburger. Sometimes our friend Lacy is with us; we call her "Two Two and One" because she always orders two burgers, two fries, one coke, large.
Sammy has the car. It is his father's. One day many many years later, Sammy will return to this small town from San Francisco, with his lover, because the house is his and his father dead. His father is fun to be around, not like the other fathers. He jokes with us kids and is like a big kid himself, running Cy's produce stand out on the road in front of the house. Across the street is the Merrimack River and I watch it float by with visions of Thoreau.
Because I have no Thespian ability, I always return to the church, for the pageantry, the weird primitive ritualistic quality. The St. George Primitive Methodist Church. Who are these primitive Methodists, I wonder. Our pastor is a blind guitar playing fire and brimstone preacher of the old school. His wife is plain as a board. I am here for the drama. It is why I stand up on youth day and proclaim Jesus as my personal saviour along with all the other kids
What a crazy notion, that some long dead guy can save you! But we get talked into being crazy and thinking it is normal. At least it does not interfere in our messy gropings on the back stoop, mine and Bobby's. If I can't get out of this town soon I will go all the way nuts, I am sure, and it has nothing to do with Jesus.
Sammy has the car. It is his father's. One day many many years later, Sammy will return to this small town from San Francisco, with his lover, because the house is his and his father dead. His father is fun to be around, not like the other fathers. He jokes with us kids and is like a big kid himself, running Cy's produce stand out on the road in front of the house. Across the street is the Merrimack River and I watch it float by with visions of Thoreau.
Because I have no Thespian ability, I always return to the church, for the pageantry, the weird primitive ritualistic quality. The St. George Primitive Methodist Church. Who are these primitive Methodists, I wonder. Our pastor is a blind guitar playing fire and brimstone preacher of the old school. His wife is plain as a board. I am here for the drama. It is why I stand up on youth day and proclaim Jesus as my personal saviour along with all the other kids
What a crazy notion, that some long dead guy can save you! But we get talked into being crazy and thinking it is normal. At least it does not interfere in our messy gropings on the back stoop, mine and Bobby's. If I can't get out of this town soon I will go all the way nuts, I am sure, and it has nothing to do with Jesus.
Monday, March 2, 2009
About the Church
What to say about the Church? The stained glass window, the sanctuary, the inside versus the outside. The safeness.
Well, in the beginning I didn't think about church. My parents never went except for the occasional wedding and funeral. My mother was downright hostile. Church was for dummies, was the message I got.
So church and I never met. The occasional sunrise service on Easter Sunday. Why? I don't know, my Mom liked the sunrise part, maybe? It had a magical quality, but the early morning always does.
So it came as a surprise that I decided to go to church with a neighbor girl. I wanted to go because the other kids went. It was the thing to do on Sunday morning. I was eleven. There would be boys. So off I went with Susan Burnham and her family to the Second (or Third or Fourth?) Methodist Church, on the theory that my father had been a Methodist as a child, so that seemed like the right church to attend. That and Susan Burnham's parents didn't mind stopping off for me on the way.
I don't remember anything about church in the early years. Time went by. I didn't meet any boys in church. The one boy I did meet was Clarence Hagar; he had red hair. he went to another church and he was in fifth grade when I was in sixth. we met in the playground at school in the mornings by the swing set.
It was his brother who intrigued me, Wayne the "hood," the bad boy. I should have been a church regular, maybe even s Salvation Army soldier, cuz it was my mission to save the bad boys, and keep them for myself.
So I went to after school Bible Study with Clarence Hagar in hopes his brother would be there. He never was. And what I learned about the Bible you can fit in the spaces between the words on this page.
The church would get me yet.
Well, in the beginning I didn't think about church. My parents never went except for the occasional wedding and funeral. My mother was downright hostile. Church was for dummies, was the message I got.
So church and I never met. The occasional sunrise service on Easter Sunday. Why? I don't know, my Mom liked the sunrise part, maybe? It had a magical quality, but the early morning always does.
So it came as a surprise that I decided to go to church with a neighbor girl. I wanted to go because the other kids went. It was the thing to do on Sunday morning. I was eleven. There would be boys. So off I went with Susan Burnham and her family to the Second (or Third or Fourth?) Methodist Church, on the theory that my father had been a Methodist as a child, so that seemed like the right church to attend. That and Susan Burnham's parents didn't mind stopping off for me on the way.
I don't remember anything about church in the early years. Time went by. I didn't meet any boys in church. The one boy I did meet was Clarence Hagar; he had red hair. he went to another church and he was in fifth grade when I was in sixth. we met in the playground at school in the mornings by the swing set.
It was his brother who intrigued me, Wayne the "hood," the bad boy. I should have been a church regular, maybe even s Salvation Army soldier, cuz it was my mission to save the bad boys, and keep them for myself.
So I went to after school Bible Study with Clarence Hagar in hopes his brother would be there. He never was. And what I learned about the Bible you can fit in the spaces between the words on this page.
The church would get me yet.
Friday, February 13, 2009
A small digression about Marguerite's meatballs
I did not grow up in a home in which dinner parties were held. Dinner was the meal eaten at 6 every night when Dad came home, on a yellow formica-topped table in the kitchen and was most often something wet and bland, meat loaf, salmon loaf, spaghetti and meatballs, or my favorite Marguerite’s meatballs.
This is the kind of social networking my mother engaged in. Her best friend was Marguerite of Marguerite’s meatballs, ordinary meatballs, rolled in rice, and then covered in mushroom soup from a can on the stove. Mmm, wish I had some now.
Marguerite was my mom's best friend; I knew this because we ate the meatballs so often and because my mom said so. "Marguerite is my best friend." Only no one ever saw Marguerite and we just took it on faith that she even existed, let alone be a best friend.
This may seem odd to most people, but mother didn't have any friends to speak of, no one but the Kuhns next door and they were more like surrogate grandparents to me than best friends, and the Riddles, whom my mother felt were intellectually beneath her; Chuck Riddle, an American Legion buddy of my dad's, the mom Loretta and two kids, Terry, my age and Chuckie. My mom and Loretta had absolutely nothing to talk about, except the kids, and my mom did not discuss child rearing with anybody. So the dads would talk and the moms would, I don't know, pretend to talk. I played withTerry in her bedroom, although I secretly felt she was intellectually beneath me as well.
So, I could tell by the fact that she made meatballs more than once a week, named after somebody, that was likely to be her best friend. Social contact was not necessary.
There would be occasional phone calls. "Mom, it's Marguerite," I would call and mom would blush like a bride, she so seldem received phone calls, and rush to the phone. The calls were always short and were never followed up by visits. It didn't occur to me to wonder what they found to talk about, these best friends who never saw one another. Anyway, one day my mom was talking on the phone to Marguerite and I heard her say, “No! I am so sorry.”
What was she sorry about? Did someone die? When she hung up, she turned to me, her face a bright red, “Guess what, Marguerite’s name isn’t Marguerite after all, it’s Margaret. All these years I’ve been calling her Marguerite and she only just today corrected me.”
What I mean about it showing what kind of social networking she did was even if Margaret/Marguerite didn’t feel comfortable correcting her when she called her by the wrong name, there was no one else to do it; it was more like an unsocial network.
No dinner parties, no friends in the flesh. Only meatballs. After that, we didn't hear from Marguerite so much.
This is the kind of social networking my mother engaged in. Her best friend was Marguerite of Marguerite’s meatballs, ordinary meatballs, rolled in rice, and then covered in mushroom soup from a can on the stove. Mmm, wish I had some now.
Marguerite was my mom's best friend; I knew this because we ate the meatballs so often and because my mom said so. "Marguerite is my best friend." Only no one ever saw Marguerite and we just took it on faith that she even existed, let alone be a best friend.
This may seem odd to most people, but mother didn't have any friends to speak of, no one but the Kuhns next door and they were more like surrogate grandparents to me than best friends, and the Riddles, whom my mother felt were intellectually beneath her; Chuck Riddle, an American Legion buddy of my dad's, the mom Loretta and two kids, Terry, my age and Chuckie. My mom and Loretta had absolutely nothing to talk about, except the kids, and my mom did not discuss child rearing with anybody. So the dads would talk and the moms would, I don't know, pretend to talk. I played withTerry in her bedroom, although I secretly felt she was intellectually beneath me as well.
So, I could tell by the fact that she made meatballs more than once a week, named after somebody, that was likely to be her best friend. Social contact was not necessary.
There would be occasional phone calls. "Mom, it's Marguerite," I would call and mom would blush like a bride, she so seldem received phone calls, and rush to the phone. The calls were always short and were never followed up by visits. It didn't occur to me to wonder what they found to talk about, these best friends who never saw one another. Anyway, one day my mom was talking on the phone to Marguerite and I heard her say, “No! I am so sorry.”
What was she sorry about? Did someone die? When she hung up, she turned to me, her face a bright red, “Guess what, Marguerite’s name isn’t Marguerite after all, it’s Margaret. All these years I’ve been calling her Marguerite and she only just today corrected me.”
What I mean about it showing what kind of social networking she did was even if Margaret/Marguerite didn’t feel comfortable correcting her when she called her by the wrong name, there was no one else to do it; it was more like an unsocial network.
No dinner parties, no friends in the flesh. Only meatballs. After that, we didn't hear from Marguerite so much.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Enter the Church
I don't remember exactly when I met Bobby, but he was the polar opposite of Kevin in many ways. He belonged to the Junior ROTC. He regularly attended church and he didn't hang out on Tuesday nights.
I think it had something to do with folk music; that and proximity. Bobby and I attended the same school. Oh, yeah, he had a car, an old Ford Fairlane. For a while the summer between Junior and Senior year I vacillated between Kevin and Bobby.
After the incident of the ring, I wasn't sure what to do. It was during a time in the summer I had definitely left Kevin for Bobby, but remained friends with Kevin's cousin, that she introduced me to the joys of small item shoplifting. The next night I had a date with Bobby. The date was to go to choir practice at his church. I guess they were letting anyone in the choir, because I could not sing my way out of an open window. I had to stand next to Mary Ellen Pooters, who had a clear alto voice and try to match her notes.
After the practice, I was excited to show Bobby my new treasure. So in the parking lot of the church, I proudly displayed my finger with the purloined ring on it. I did not expect his reaction.
Bobby grabbed my hand in what was not an admiring gesture. Instead he pulled the ring off my hand and threw it out the window.
"Oh, you are such a prig!" I yelled, stomping off to walk home. He didn't follow me, so I decided it was a sign I should go back to Kevin and a life of pizza and matinees.
Of course, I couldn't go back to church, and so had to avoid Mary Ellen Pooters at school as well as all the other church kids.
Kevin's mom was none too pleased we were seeing each other again, and I started having unexpected pangs of what I interpreted to be guilt over my behavior.
Two weeks later I was skulking around the back door to the church when choir practice let out and threw myself at Bobby. He said this was it, no more shoplifting, no more Kevin.
And I had to join the youth group and start down the road to accepting Jesus Christ as my personal saviour. Burt that's another story.
I think it had something to do with folk music; that and proximity. Bobby and I attended the same school. Oh, yeah, he had a car, an old Ford Fairlane. For a while the summer between Junior and Senior year I vacillated between Kevin and Bobby.
After the incident of the ring, I wasn't sure what to do. It was during a time in the summer I had definitely left Kevin for Bobby, but remained friends with Kevin's cousin, that she introduced me to the joys of small item shoplifting. The next night I had a date with Bobby. The date was to go to choir practice at his church. I guess they were letting anyone in the choir, because I could not sing my way out of an open window. I had to stand next to Mary Ellen Pooters, who had a clear alto voice and try to match her notes.
After the practice, I was excited to show Bobby my new treasure. So in the parking lot of the church, I proudly displayed my finger with the purloined ring on it. I did not expect his reaction.
Bobby grabbed my hand in what was not an admiring gesture. Instead he pulled the ring off my hand and threw it out the window.
"Oh, you are such a prig!" I yelled, stomping off to walk home. He didn't follow me, so I decided it was a sign I should go back to Kevin and a life of pizza and matinees.
Of course, I couldn't go back to church, and so had to avoid Mary Ellen Pooters at school as well as all the other church kids.
Kevin's mom was none too pleased we were seeing each other again, and I started having unexpected pangs of what I interpreted to be guilt over my behavior.
Two weeks later I was skulking around the back door to the church when choir practice let out and threw myself at Bobby. He said this was it, no more shoplifting, no more Kevin.
And I had to join the youth group and start down the road to accepting Jesus Christ as my personal saviour. Burt that's another story.
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